Getting Ready For Your Big Day
Saying yes to the one you love is easy enough. Hopefully all of us have that one, or are still looking for the one; finding the right person for you is difficult enough however once found and fallen in love, getting together in holy matrimony, makes people rethink the ideas of a wedding. If you plan it right and execute it efficiently, the question as to “why did I agree to a big wedding?” will not be formed in your spouse’s mind.
Venue, theme (if any), food and attire are important. If you are religious enough, a ceremony in the local church or temple must be arranged. However, among the things that have to be prior planned, there are some that needs only a few days’ preparation while some may need weeks or even months. For example, if you are making your own wine – your mother might be wanting this – getting on with that procedure takes time. Making cake needs a few trips to the bakery. If you are planning a different hairdo, visiting and asking advice from Townsville hair salons is important. Invitations must be sent at least a month prior to the exact wedding date, hence, designing and writing them must be done well in advance.
Have a “team” ready
It is important to have a few people who are willing to take part in the organizing. Some brides’ maids have played that role for many times, they are quite accustomed with wedding planning. Don’t try to do everything by you, not only it is impossible but also it will make you terribly jaded and unable to face the actual day with confidenceand freshness. Therefore the best thing to do is to have a group of your friends and family assigned various tasks, one can look in to food and venue, another can take care of the religious ceremony, another, perhaps the maid of honour, can take care of all the maids’ dresses and flower etc. Invitees’ list and making sure everyone’s invited can be handled by parents or guardians of both sides.
Take your time
Don’t get stressed about the wedding. It is said that brides become “bridezillas” closer to the event; they can make it such an unpleasant job to the bakery people, dressmakers, great lengths hair extensions and even her own maids, family and friends. To prevent from going to that stage, you must list everything down, keep a proper documentation and follow each task separately with the one it is assigned. Better yet, if you can afford it, you can hire an events management company which will do all that for you. Also remember to listen to the experts, if they say this sort of hairdo doesn’t fit your face, you can believe them as they have been in this business for a very long time, definitely more than you have! Make your wedding an enjoyable and an unforgettable experience; there is nothing to be agitated about if you plan it properly.